Saturday, November 16, 2013

What a Scorpio Man wants in a Woman

Bonnie and Clyde. Sid and Nancy. Brangelina. The Scorpio man is looking for an iconic relationship, a hall of fame soulmate story—and he refuses to settle for less. He may give his body, even his name or DNA. But until he finds his mythic other half, the person who makes him look and feel like a god, he’ll never give his soul. The Scorpio man needs to be part of a power couple. He needs a trophy wife and a soulmate in one. Here’s his idea of nirvana: he’s the king of his empire, and you’re the queen of yours, and together, you’re the envy of the world. It’s rumored that Scorpio P. Diddy will never get over Jennifer Lopez—even the model who mothered his children can’t keep him faithful. Although he’s a classic family man, Scorpio isn’t overly traditional about marriage. In many ways, he’s a feminist here.

He loves a powerful woman with her own life, money, career and interests—and he won’t try to change you once you get married. He doesn’t mind if you keep your own last name, or even out-earn him, as long as you keep your salaries private. He’ll gladly pick the kids up from school, make dinner and scrub the bathroom with a toothbrush if it means he can be left alone to pursue his passions. When it comes to his home and family, the Scorpio man demands creative control. Protective and possessive, he’ll set up a utopian family structure under his tight supervision, even home schooling his kids. He wants everything he does to be the “ultimate”—and molds his family according to his uncompromising vision. Scorpio rules the reproductive system, making him a natural father.

A Scorpio Man Wants Deep Love
He longs for a close-knit family filled with love and open communication, and he’ll do what it takes to get that. Behind every Scorpio man’s relationship style is…his mom. He has a complicated, love/hate relationship with his mother that can border on Oedipal. Cutting the cord isn’t easy for him, and his resulting behavior pattern can be tricky to navigate. He fears that every woman wants to “engulf” him, yet he constantly creates situations where he needs to be mothered by his mate. You may have to endure a “come-here-now-go-away” drama until he realizes you’re not trying to control him. He’ll need to take baby steps to let you in. Scorpio is the sign of deep bonding and extreme detachment, making him a bit schizophrenic about intimacy.

 Closeness frightens him, because deep down, he fears separation. Abandonment issues? He’s got ‘em for days. While he longs to merge souls with you, another part of him is terrified to lose control. He feels pain at a deeper level than any other sign, and breakups can haunt him for decades. To protect himself, he’ll try to keep some sense of “space” in the relationship—having a long-distance relationship, working late, or keeping his own apartment. If you push him to take a step before he’s ready, he’ll draw back. This could go on for years until he feels “ready” (read: safe enough) to come a centimeter closer. The Scorpio man needs space, but he also needs you to lay down limits. Don’t give him an all-access pass to your life (are you listening, Sagittarius, Leo and Gemini ladies?). He needs an edge of mystery, some part of you that he’ll never figure out. Dancing this fine line can be exhausting and unrewarding for some women, and we don’t recommend it unless it comes naturally.

A Typical Scorpio Man is Unorthodox
Once you’re in, should you make it that far, you’ll feel like a goddess. The Scorpio man is a wholly different creature once he surrenders to trust. He lets you be totally sexually expressed while feeling fully respected. There’s no Madonna/whore conflict. The more you fly your freak flag, the more he pledges allegiance. Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth, the mythic Phoenix rising from the ashes of destruction. You may have several breakups or relationship phases en route to fully committing. Though they will be harrowing for you, he considers these fiery emotional trials a purification ritual. In his mind, the more your relationship withstands turmoil, the more “real” your connection is. Hardcore? You bet.

 Although he can seem commitment-phobic, he takes marriage and relationships more seriously than mafia initiation. He cherishes trust and honesty—at least your honesty. On the other hand, you may never quite know where he stands. But that’s part of the adventure with a Scorpio. Just when you think you’ve got him figured out, he throws you a curve. Stay on your toes, and he might just sweep you off your feet.

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Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Asteroid Karma Transiting Through Dark, Sexy Scorpio

Very few astrologers have written about this transit of asteroid karma (3811). Karma means getting what you deserved for your actions 3 times. The asteroid karma means results not actions. Actions have been done by you months or years back. This transit of the asteroid now will give you the results depending on your actions. This means the good will get the good 3 times, the bad might get the bad 3 times. However, all this will happen in the area of the darky, mysterious, tantric and sexy sign of the zodiac- Scorpio.

I have analyzed the effect of this transit of the asteroid 3811 karma. I have been personally hit by it and so have my other friends. Let's take a look at the good, bad and ugly of this transit through the houses and aspecting the planets.

Transiting  Asteroid 3811 Karma aspecting the Planets:

Karma conjuncting the Sun:

If you have sown your seeds in the field of glamour, acting, government, political arena; you will be getting the results now. You may get your lucky break or at least a news pertaining to it. Your father may also get lucky this time around. Look for scorpio in his chart as well.

Karma conjuncting the Moon:

If you have sown your seeds in emotions, real estate, homeland, nurturing, cooking then you will get the results 3 times. You will also get any money that was waiting. Look for your mother as she might bring some good news as well. Check Scorpio in her chart.

Karma conjunct Venus:

If you have sown your seeds in luxury, love, money, possessions, beauty, art, aesthetics, dance and property then you will get good news pertaining to it. Gods will begin to answer your prayers and will shower their material blessings on to you. If you are a woman then you might find a suitable love match with scorpionic qualities. For a man, he can get his love at this time.

Karma conjunct Mars:

If you have sown your seeds in military, sports, aggression, sexual drive, conquests or competition even fights then the results will start showing. Now, your neighbours, brothers also will benefit. 

Monday, November 4, 2013

Chiron: The Wounded Healer, Painful Teacher and Lover for Life

This is my first post on the dwarf planet, Chiron, this is a much hyped dwarf planet thanks to MAGI astrology. I never actually paid heed to this one but since I have started going deeper and deeper into occult sciences, I had to. As per Magi astrology it is Chiron that is a love planet or the one that decides if you will marry or not.

Well, I don't fully agree with their definition. Chiron is one of the reasons why we may marry, while Juno can indicate our life long bonds which may not culminate into marriage. My own  research on marriages that have lasted for more than 10 years has shown that indeed Chiron connections work. But Chiron alone is not the one who can decide your marriage. It is the planet called "Saturn" that will show if you are bonding with the right person at the right time. Saturn is the heirophant and hermit in the major arcana that holds the keys to your love's paradise. He makes you suffer and wait to decide whether you are or not meant to be together. When, you have been tested, he grants you the "keys".  Other than Saturn, there are the nodes of the moon which bring in the past life and future connections into your life. Then the relatively underestimated "vertex" is the one that will actually show if or not your "destiny" will meet.  Last, but not the least, Eros meeting psyche the two love asteroids will always point out towards "soul-mates". Not to forget, without the meeting of the "angles" which are the AC, IC, DC and MC with planets or with the significant other's angles it is not fully possible to confirm if this union will last or not.

Now, that all the "marriage" astrology signifactors have been specified, we come back to our topic of discussion - Chiron.

My personal research tells me that Chiron is the reason why we would prefer marrying a person with whom we have our Chiron connections.

A chiron conjunct descendant, mars, jupiter, sun some of the aspects that I have seen in these synastries. I have also seen that chiron conjunct ascendant in synastry is very effective. Chiron is the pain and vulnerability. It is the pain that we want to get rid of. It is the pain that is felt by a baby who cries for everything not just for milk. Babies are sensitive and they can only cry. Chiron is our indolent baby. We need to nurse it but not pamper it. We need to heal it not conceal it. Concealment only grows the pain. Healing is opening the wound and getting it operated. But opening of the wound gives a life-threatening pain although it might just be imaginary.

So, when we fall in love with a planet person or with the angles, nodes of the other person. He or she is the healer for us. They are our doctors and they are there to rescue us while learning of their shortcomings themselves.

On the contrary, Juno is our commitment. It is our innate compulsion to bond with the person whom Juno finds to be our perfect partner. Our chiron may make us marry our doctor but juno will bond with our lover. We might open our pains in front of our doctor to heal them but will be glued to our lover. So, juno is our eternal lover while Chiron is our lover for life. Simply, because the planet/angle/node person will feel it necessary to play the doctor to the indolent baby while in the case of Juno they will stick out of compulsion because they find you to be "unforgettable".

Therefore, as per me the relationships that have a fair-deal of Juno- planet/angle/node connections as well as chiron- planet/angle/node connections have seemed to be perfect ones and long-lasting.

Angles Conjunct Chiron Synastry

Planet and angle connections to chiron in synastry can be exhausting for the angle/planet person.  For example, I have seen the chiron conjunct descendant synastry that brought a pain in the life of the DC person. This relationship involves the dc person had to heal the chiron from near death experience, (chiron in scorpio), through inheritance issues, debts and losses. The DC person opened the gateway of security, material possessions and family values along with growth to the Chiron person through the relationship. (chiron in dc opposes ac in taurus).

In the reverse case scenario, where the chiron conjuncts asc in synastry, the sheer meeting of these two can start the healing process of the chiron person. The asc person is the literal doctor here without even the awareness of the asc person. The chiron person finds his vulnerability being brought out on the surface. I have studied an example, in which the asc person found the chiron person to be extremely emotional, nurturing and wounded due to lack of "family and paternal love".

The chiron person who has pluto and sun conjunction in the first house never appears to be "vulnerable or nurturing" to anyone other than her (asc). On top of it, he has the conjunction in Scorpio so you can imagine the intensity.

But this guy is totally vulnerable whenever he meets her. She brings out his chiron in cancer that speaks about his vulnerability about "nurturing". He lacks the feeling of being nurtured since, his father passed away. The guy played tough and plays tough all the time falling on his house of capricorn or the 10th house where he is forced to play a career oriented guy . Upon meeting this girl, his vulnerabilities came  tumbling upon but due to a lot of distant planets they separated unofficially or without speaking a word.

He became more career oriented and directed his pain in his career making an extremely good career with public fame for himself.