Saturday, September 26, 2015

How to Know If Your Scorpio Man Is Serious About You?

Most people come to my blog asking about the traits of a Scorpio man in love. I am writing a book on Scorpio man love, lust and obsession to give a better insight. Actually, the mystery is the reason why Scorpio men can be so hard to understand. It is the 8th sign symbolizing the underworld and not the one that we can see. Therefore, Scorpio is dark and hidden. It can be confusing to know a Scorpio and further confusing to know his feelings. 

Like all men, there is a chance of getting your time wasted with a Scorpio too. But it can be more painful with him. In case of Libra man, it can be frustrating. However, Scorpios always inflict a very deep wound that lasts longer sometimes even for your next births. If you cheated on him you will crave for his love when things seem to get lame with other "lukewarm" lovers. He will never return. 

Losing opportunity with a Scorpio man is a loss of a lifetime especially if he was the one. Yes, the pain and loss will feel immense. It will be equally painful if he has taken you for a ride. Like a tornado, he will leave you destroyed. 

So, here are some a snippet from my forthcoming book about knowing if your Scorpio man is serious about you or not. 

Initial Phase:

When he realizes that he is love, the first thing he would want to do it is chase you away. No, it may sound funny but the force will be so strong that you will want to run for life. 

Reason: Scorpio man knows that a lightning has struck him and so he has to take control by teaching the lightning a lesson. Okay, you should know, he is almost "invincible" and anything that threatens that thought should be destroyed immediately. 

Middle Phase:

After he has been assured by his own soul that the lightning is for a harmless purpose, he will begin to relax. This will be the time when in his heart, he starts seeing his future with you. But don't expect the declaration. Try to stay away from the temptation of making him declare his feelings. Play it cool. You will get drunk dialing, drunk declarations or even sometimes casual curious questions. Then it will all be, "Okay, I never said such things". He will hint you sometimes. Show you the picture of his family members, pets and share some memories with you. Again, he will keep his distance. 

Reason: He has yet to recover from the stroke of the lightning. He has to accept his feelings. He is checking the surface. He is checking if his investment of "deep feelings" will get the desired response or not.

Now, I am not revealing the final phase, most Scorpio men will hate me for revealing too much information about them. So, I will take it slowly. You must also take it slow as a woman in love with a Scorpio. One big hint: The two phases are not necessarily chronological. They can simultaneous and to and fro. But in all these phases, the stare that says "I was hit by the bus big time" will be a common factor. Look out for it!

Monday, September 14, 2015

Transiting Pluto Conjunct Descendant Part-2

Pluto looking at Persephone

Last post on the same topic was about who will enter your life and how it will be. This one will be about how your life will be once this person is in your life. Also, about what if you have "Plutonians" coming and going out of life? Will it be good or bad or ugly or a mix of all? Pluto is in Capricorn and I must say it is the most brutal Pluto. It is also the most rewarding for those who want to do that "big transformation". When it hits your descendant, he will bring those opportunities. However, what most of the time, we don't note is Pluto is a name of god. He may be evil as per some. But god is not evil. Evil is not god. Transformation is the ultimate truth. It is a law of the universe. Change is constant and only "change is permanent".

While some of you, may suffer an intense heartbreak. Others will use this power to climb up the ladder. Pluto will bring only plutonic partners and only these partners will help you.

Whether positively or negatively look out for men/women with a strong Pluto in their charts.  Those with Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus conjunct Pluto will prove to be trans-formative for you. They will be the partners that transform you either by helping you or provoking you. They will be the forces which will drive you towards your goals and relationships. You will find them play a pivotal role.

Of course, mutual synastry will play a major role. But these people will be the anchors in a way that will mold you towards a better tomorrow.
Daksha/Khnum/Baphomet with Lord Shiva

As a Cancer ascendant, you might be finding it hard to let go your family. However, Pluto on descendant in Capricorn is the most practical Pluto. You will want to break away from your immediate family. Financially, if it is not possible, don't sulk. It is time to be shrewd and set your foot on the ground. Coming  11 years will transform you into a worldly power.

The god of the underworld will present you with two options, rise or fall. I have mentioned in the previous article that Lord Shiva is Pluto. He is also known as the "Adi-Yogi" or the first Yogi. It means the one who first knew Yoga. Almost all of us know today that meditation is an integral part of Yoga. So, when you are facing this heavy transit, Pluto asks you to increase your inner light.

This transit is for allowing the white light inside you to guide you. You can meditate on the Tarot's "The Star" card. You can see it is appropriately numbered at "17". The numerological total of this number is 8 which is the number of the zodiac sign of Scorpio. Thus, it is the number of Pluto, symbolizing change that is inevitable and permanent.

To explain more profoundly, I would like to quote a sentence from Debashis Chatterjee's book, "Timeless Leadership: 18 Leadership Sutras from the Bhagavad Gita". The quote goes like this, "Old habits die hard. A leader has to destabilize existing forms of thought and action."

This is what this transit is about, establishing your leadership. You will have to take charge of your life. Be the leader. Lead from the front. Kill the old and dead patterns. If a relationship is weighing too heavily on you then leave it behind. Transform yourself and move forward. Pluto will guide you. He is asking you to understand the Capricornian or Saturnian laws of life which mean that only the tangible stays. He is asking you to understand the significance of power and passion in your life. How these qualities can help you reach a stable future with a dependable partner.

The other tarot card for you to meditate is the "Chariot" card. You see the prince is holding the reins of two horses running in different directions. One is positivity and other is negativity. One new and other those old things that hold you back.

If there is a relationship that is holding you back or you are holding to it out of emotional insecurity (Cancer) then it is a bad idea says Pluto. He is telling you that a passionate partner who supports your ambitions and walks with you towards a successful future is the right one. Anyone less than such a man is not for you. If you are a man then the same is applicable.

A real love relationship will go miles and miles with you supporting your dreams and forgiving your mistakes. Here, is one more beautiful song that I feel describes transiting Pluto conjunct Descendant in Capricorn

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